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Play Therapy

"Play is the child’s form of self therapy… Play also serves as a language for the child – a symbolism that substitutes for words"  Violet Oaklander

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What is play therapy?

Play therapy is a developmentally appropriate way of helping children with their ‘big feelings’ that manifest in unhelpful behaviours It capitalises on children’s ‘natural language’ – play – to reduce anxiety and help them learn Talking about feelings can be stressful for children, but play helps them communicate through the safe metaphor of art or a game ​ Play is fun but also powerful, flooding the brain with feel-good endorphins.  Neuroscience has shown that play reshapes the brain, building connections between different areas and integrating the hemispheres.  New ways of thinking and responding can be learned through play.

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Who is it for?

Any child from age 4 experiencing emotional difficulties. Play therapy is a non-directive, non-judgmental, child-affirming approach. The therapist adapts and accommodates to the needs of the child. ​Play therapy can be helpful for: - Emotional and behavioural difficulties - Communication problems - Nightmares - Family difficulties or change - Bullying issues - Attachment difficulties - Trauma or crisis - Loss or bereavement - Low self-esteem - Difficulties related to neurodivergence.

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What happens?

Individual sessions are usually about 45 minutes long and in them children have free access to sand, toys and creative materials.  The child chooses the activities and themes while the therapist maintains safe boundaries and engages fully with the child, attuning to their emotions, co-regulating them and paying attention to what is being communicated through their play, using this to inform the therapy. Developmentally, children are more able to 'show' than 'tell'.​

"Through observing children at play, we recognize what their worries, concerns, and fantasies are. We learn about their basic needs, their feelings of love and anger, their rivalries and fears of failure, their secret wishes and desires."

Dorothy and Jerome Singer​
Sessions can get messy -
please use old clothes!
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More about play therapy, click here

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I am available to conduct individual and group play therapy sessions both privately and in schools in and around Bury St Edmunds. Please note, the child's parent or carer will need to stay onsite for out-of-school sessions.

Individual play therapy usually has 12 sessions as a minimum whereas group therapy is generally 6 - 8 sessions. Session prices range from £50 per session (the average rate in the area).

"Play is the foundation of learning, creativity, self-expression, and constructive problem-solving. It’s how children wrestle with life to make it meaningful." Susan Linn
"Play is the mediator of the invisible and visible. " Dora M. Kalff
"Children need the freedom and time to play. Play is not a luxury. Play is a necessity." Kay Redfield Jamison
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